In this episode, I’m joined by my husband Chris Esquivel for a conversation on what makes our relationship tick. For a long time, I was afraid of settling down. Now, I’ve learned that so much of that fear came from cultural expectations about what marriage could and should be. With mutual respect (and a lot of practice communicating), we’ve managed to keep space for the things that bring both of us to life individually, while building a secure and comforting foundation together.